"Friends With Benefits"

Assalamualaikum...

Setelah sekian lama aku x update, hari ni trasa cam nak update blog.. Bukan xnak update, tp trasa sangat la busy sampaikan xdk mud nk update blog.. Lagi pown follower sikit je, bkn kesah pn klu aku x update.. huhu.. ade jgk tulis something sblum ni, tp stakat kt draft, tulis sparuh jalan, trus mls.. tu yg tggl cmtu je.. da lme tu mmg x valid da la ape yg aku nk post tu, so aku delete je.. ok cukup 1 perenggan da pendahuluan, dpt da 5 mrkah utk pendahuluan esei bahasa melayu SPM..

ok back to the topic, "Friends with benefits", aku x tau mne dtg nye istilah ni, tp aku ske sbut ble jmpa somebody yg mcm ni... Dari sudut bahasa, friends with benefit ni adalah kawan dengan faedah.. Dari segi istilah, friends with benefits ni bermaksud seseorang yang mencari kawan ketika memerlukannya aje.. In other words, kalau seseorang tu x memberi apa2 kebaikan kepada die, die takkan berkawan dengan orang tu. Ataupun kalau die perlukan orang tu je die akan cari org tu, kalau x, jgn haraplah nk bertegur sapa.. Ok full mark utk cara jawab pendidikan islam SPM lak..









"Some Friends Come Into Your Life For a Reason, Others Come Only For a Season"


Based on the above statement, it doesn't take into account on where you live, as long as there is somebody you can assume to be inside your friend zone, you will meet this type of friend; friend with benefit. So nk xnk, mmg kte xleh elak.. dan tanpa kte sedar pn, mgkin kita jgk tgolong dlm "friends with benefits" ni.. So muhasabah diri la yek.. honestly, I hate this type of person, especially an extreme one.. yg sejelas2nye akan cari kte when he/she needed us or it's their hard times or nk mnx tolong etc etc.. Tp tulah, kalau kte x tlg, we will be the bad guy in this situation.. kalau tolong, they never learn.. Frankly speaking, both situations doesn't give us any benefit.. tp its better to be on 2nd situation, since they will learn someday, somehow, hopefully.. sbut pasal "friends with benefits ni" tbe lak tringat cte lakonan abang justin timberlake ngan adik mila kunis tu..

Cerita ni best.. pnh tgk sekali je.. sbb idea die, jalan cerita sume mmg menarik.. walaupn just a romance genre, tp agk high quality la kalau nk banding cerita kat malaysia ni.. tp yg x bestnye crite omputih ni, yela crite die kompem 18sx.. so kepada kanak2 ribena yang tgh baca ni, jangan tgk crite ni... sbnarnye blh je tgk, tp part ehem2 tu skip la.. tp still, its better jgn tgk.. ok da jauh da lari ni, sbnrnye aku da jmpa rmai da org yg cmni, friends with benefits ni.. cme ada yg takat biasa2, ada yg ok, dan ada yg sgt extreme n jelas die tu cari somebody ble perlu je.. yela masing2 pnye perangai kn, kte tgur die, kte kne mrh blk.. tp x dinafikan, ada je yg ikhlas btul2 kwn ngan kte, yg btul2 serius slesa dgn kte.. cme it is rare, that is why they are precious. same gk cm permata dengan kaca, they are just the same, tp permata lg precious sbb die rare.. ssh nk dptm ssh nk jmpa.. and of course they have a very good quality.. tp when talking about human, kadang manusia akan jd precious when they are happy, when they are in love, etc etc.. my point is there are a lot of stimuli to make human jd precious.



sbnrnye hidup kte ni da tbalik.. kte dilahirkan ade sebabnye, to be an advantage to others, not to take advantage from them..tp prnh x kte bgn pg pasang niat nk become the fullest of the good side of yourself, scara x lgsung, bg advantage kt org.. pnh x kte rase sronok, ble rase diri kte ni bguna utk org lain.. this is a precious life.. yes kdg2 it hurts, tp kdg2 hurting is a part of learning.. akn ada kbaikan untuk kte..

"Barang siapa yang mengerjakan kebaikan seberat zarah pun, niscaya dia akan melihat (balasan) nya. Dan barang siapa yang mengerjakan kejahatan seberat zarah pun, niscaya dia akan melihat (balasan) nya pula." ~Az-Zalzalah ayat 7-8~

So setelah panjang lebar bercerita, rasenye da tbe mse nk ttup cerita ni.. rasenye ni post aku yg pling pnjg.. huhu.. xpe la.. yg penting live your life to the fullest.. don't waste it.. till next time.. daaa...